Air travel comes with its own set of unwritten rules, and one of the most contentious behaviors passengers often face is the request to swap seats. Whether it’s a matter of sitting with a companion or simply wanting a more desirable location, asking to switch seats is now more divisive than ever. In fact, a new term has emerged to describe those who attempt to move to a different seat without permission: “seat lice.”
The phrase, which has gained traction on social media and travel forums like Reddit, has sparked heated debates about seat-swapping etiquette. The term “seat lice” was coined by travelers frustrated with individuals who sit in seats they weren’t assigned, hoping no one will notice or challenge their actions. Some passengers even feel entitled to better seating, despite not having paid for it, making it a major point of contention.
A post on the r/Delta subreddit, for example, described an incident where a couple moved into a passenger’s assigned aisle seat. When the traveler politely asked for their seat back, they were met with complaints and sighs of frustration. The poster expressed their annoyance with the couple’s entitled attitude, adding that they felt these “seat lice” often believe they deserve a more comfortable seat just because they feel like it.
But this isn’t the first time passengers have coined unflattering terms for disruptive behaviors on flights. “Gate lice,” for instance, refers to people who crowd the gate before boarding begins. “Aisle lice” describes those who stand up prematurely as the plane lands, blocking the aisles and creating unnecessary congestion. Each of these terms highlights a growing frustration with fellow travelers’ behavior that disrupts the experience for others.
Despite the negative attention “seat lice” have received, some passengers argue that swapping seats is a natural part of air travel. Many travelers report being open to seat swaps when offered a better location, such as moving from a middle seat to an aisle or window seat. Some even go so far as to say they are willing to accommodate others if it helps someone sit with their family or avoids seating a child next to a stranger.
However, the consensus seems to be that while it’s okay to ask to swap seats, it’s important to do so politely and not pressure the other person into agreeing. Etiquette expert Jo Hayes suggests that if you need to switch seats, you should approach the situation calmly, explaining the reason behind the request, such as wanting to sit next to a travel companion. She advises against waiting until you’re on the plane, recommending that passengers make seat requests during the check-in process instead. This way, airlines can more easily accommodate seat changes before boarding.
It’s also important to note that airlines don’t always have the luxury of being flexible with seating arrangements. According to Jay Robert, a senior cabin crew member for a major European airline, there are safety and logistical considerations that require passengers to remain in their assigned seats, especially on smaller aircraft. The balance of the plane and cargo distribution depend on where passengers are seated. Additionally, in case of an emergency, flight attendants must know exactly who is sitting where to quickly assist.
In some cases, cabin crew may offer a seat swap to passengers if they notice someone is uncomfortable or cramped. However, Robert stresses that any seat changes should be cleared by the crew to ensure safety and avoid confusion. Passengers should never take it upon themselves to switch seats without informing the flight attendants.
For those who find themselves on the receiving end of a seat swap request, it’s perfectly acceptable to say no. If you’ve paid extra for a preferred seat, like an aisle or window, you have every right to decline a swap. The key is to handle the situation politely and without confrontation.
Ultimately, the term “seat lice” serves as a reminder that, when it comes to air travel, everyone has their own preferences and boundaries. While some are willing to accommodate others, others find seat-swapping behavior irritating, especially when it’s done without regard for the rules or the comfort of others. Whether you’re guilty of asking to swap seats or you prefer to stick to your assigned spot, one thing is clear: the next time you board a flight, being mindful of those around you could help make the journey a bit smoother for everyone.